Saturday, January 30, 2010

We are trying to make it easier for Mumbai woman to find intimacy without intricacy.

What we are?
We are a group of women, who try to find suitable men for the women who request us. We also anonymously write to Men you are interested in, without revealing your identity before they confirm interest. But we don't guarantee. We do it for charity... out of sheer urge to help those who are similar to us. And we maintain the expected level of secrecy while we do it.

What we are not?
We are not professionals at doing this. We are not an alternative to Adult Friend Finder. We are not a prostitution racquet. There is noting illegal or immoral about us. Mutually consensual relationship between two adults is perfectly legal and moral.

How can you get benefitted?
If you are an adult woman living in Mumbai, you can send us an email at findmyguy[at]
This is the list of things we expect you to have in that email:
  1. Level of intimacy, let's say on a scale where
    • 0 means a platonic relationship
    • 1 means connect on phone/chat
    • 2 means meet him on a date
    • 3 means a short-term non-sexual relationship
    • 4 means a short-term sexual relationship
    • 5 means you seek long term meaningful and sexual relationship
  2. Level of intricacy, where:
    • 0 means noone would know about you sending us an email
    • 1 means you might disclose your name (may be fake) and phone number to the guy
    • 2 means you would like to talk about your work and family and social circle with the guy (but not disclose anything to your friends and family)
    • 3 means you don't mind your friends and family knowing about the guy
    • 4 means you don't mind being socially called the guy's girlfriend
    • 5 means might consider matrimony in future
  3. Your age
  4. Your education
  5. Your height
  6. Your weight
  7. Details of what you are looking for in the guy. Or name/contact of the guy you want us to contact on your behalf.
Some examples of intimacy and intricacy combinations:
  • 0 and 3 - platonic friendship
  • 2 and 2 - means a secret date
  • 4 and 0 - a typical one night stand
  • 5 and 5 - almost matrimony
Remember that the level of intricacy and discreetness has to be reciprocal. The guy also should not be expected to reveal more than you reveal.

You need to tell us nothing else but the things above. We don't want to know your name. You can use a shadow email address. Your genuineness will be tested by the way you interact. After all, we are women, we know how to sniff it :)

What do we write to the guy on your behalf? 
We decide it case to case. That's the fun. You can ask us to verify whether someone you know is interested in you or not. Or to secretly connect with someone you know is interested in you, but you are too hesitant to approach.

By when can you expect a reply?
There is no fixed time we can promise. Besides we read your emails at our leisure, and reply only when we have a suitable guy. Don't have your expectations high, there are very few good men in the world ;

How do we make money?
All of us are handsomely employed with our jobs. This is just some charity we do.